Why do some people die at the age of 60, while others are still very healthy at the age of 90? Three long-lived elderly people say this

At dusk, I arrived at Grandpa Liang's house next to the rural road. Although Grandpa Liang, who is 94 years old, has a slightly bent body, he is full of energy and has a smiling face

At dusk, I arrived at Grandpa Liang's house next to the rural road. Although Grandpa Liang, who is 94 years old, has a slightly bent body, he is full of energy and has a smiling face.

Come on, young man, let's sit here and talk, "Grandpa Liang pointed to the stone bench and greeted me.

I looked at the white haired but energetic old man in front of me and couldn't help but feel a thousand emotions. Remembering my elderly parents who often argue over household chores, I feel a sense of sadness in my heart.

When Grandpa was young, did there also be some arguments at home I mustered the courage to ask.

Haha, arguments are inevitable, and of course, your grandmother and I used to argue over small things when we were young. "Speaking of this past, Grandpa Liang's eyes flashed with a hint of memories.

I listened with great interest, but Grandpa Liang sighed and said, "Later on, it was really unwise. No matter how small the differences are, couples need to understand and tolerate each other, and cannot all force each other to follow their own way.

In fact, the most precious thing about relationships is finding resonance in their differences. "Grandpa Liang's eyes were gentle and firm.

I often remind your grandmother that some disagreements can be stopped to a certain extent, and there is no need to argue for a solution.

I was deeply touched and couldn't help but nod. Grandpa Liang saw that I was mesmerized and continued, "The most important thing about relationships is mutual support and understanding.

This is the path to longevity.

I am filled with excitement and reverence for the family like life experiences of the elderly. Before leaving, Grandpa Liang repeatedly reminded me to cherish my family, communicate more, and argue less.

The next morning, I arrived at the seaside cottage to visit Grandma Chen, who was about 90 years old. Stepping into the courtyard door, I saw Grandma Chen adding food to the bird feed trough.

Grandma Chen raised her head and squinted her eyes at me for a moment, then smiled and said, "Here you go, come in and sit down quickly.

The house is old but tidy, with a photo of Grandma Chen and her husband hanging on the wall. The two people in the photo laughed brilliantly, which made me couldn't help but feel how much ups and downs this old couple had gone through before they finally got married.

Grandma, can I ask you a personal question? "I asked tentatively," Did you and Grandpa have any conflicts or arguments when they were young

Grandma Chen sighed and her eyes became blurred. "Of course, what newlyweds haven't had a holiday? When we first got married, we often had arguments over money expenses.

He is generous and never cares, but I always think he is extravagant.

What happened later? "I pursued.

Later on, I realized that difficulties in life were not his responsibility alone, "said Grandma Chen with a hint of regret in her tone." I should understand him, not blame him all the time.

I nodded, and Grandma Chen continued, "The most precious thing about relationships is finding mutual tolerance through trial and error.

Thinking about it now, it was really unreasonable at that time.

So, young people, "said Grandma Chen with a faint smile," we should learn to take a step back and look at each other, put ourselves in the other's shoes, be more tolerant, less blaming, and naturally have a harmonious family.

I am deeply moved by Grandma Chen's words. Before leaving, she repeatedly reminded me to cherish my parents and show more consideration for my family.

On the third day, I arrived at Grandpa Li's house in the suburbs. 96 year old Li Gonggong is hale and hearty, with a blush on his face and full of vitality.

How about taking a walk Gong Li greeted me with a smile as he entered the door.

We walked slowly along the path in the yard. Li Gonggong's demeanor is polite and polite, unlike that of an elderly person who is almost a hundred years old.

A hint of embarrassment flashed on Li Gonggong's face, and he smiled and said, "Actually, it's not the case. When we first got married, we had a lot of arguments.

I looked at him in surprise, and Gong Li explained, "At that time, I had a bad temper and my mother was sensitive and delicate, often arguing about household chores.

Later? "I asked after him, and Grandpa Li sighed." After that, I suddenly realized that I really didn't understand my wife's thoughts before.

The most precious thing about relationships is to find resonance through understanding, "Li Gonggong stopped and said earnestly." As a husband, I should think from the perspective of my wife, rather than just talking to myself.

I nodded and said yes to Gong Li's wise quote. As I was about to leave, he repeatedly reminded me to be more considerate of my parents and put myself in their shoes.

The earnest teachings of the three elderly people have filled me with respect for their sincere and childlike hearts. However, a question always lingers in my mind: do they believe that all discord and arguments are just destined?.

I didn't have the courage to ask this question until the fourth day. That day, I invited three elderly people to meet again and share the joy of family.

My question stunned all three elderly people. After a while, Grandpa Liang slowly spoke up and said, "Young people, fate cannot be predicted, but each of us has the right to choose our own way of life and way of doing things.

Grandma Chen nodded and continued, "Indeed, when we were young, we all used to think we were the right one.

Li Gonggong also agreed: "Regardless of the environment, we cannot give up hope. We must believe that as long as we take positive actions, our fate may change.

I realized that my problem may have touched their pain and quickly apologized. The three elderly people looked at me with a kind expression in their eyes.

Through communication with three elderly people, I have gained a deeper understanding of family relationships and harmony.

Firstly, the arrogance of youth is the root cause of many family discord. I began to reflect that the disputes between parents may also stem from misunderstandings between each other.

Secondly, marital relationships are not easy won and require both parties to work hard. In the past, I always believed that the disharmony between parents was a problem for each other.

Thirdly, we should cherish our family and listen and communicate more. Perhaps there was also a hidden concern and expectation for me in my parents' previous arguments.

Fourthly, we must believe that both emotions and fate can be changed. As long as one takes positive actions and maintains an optimistic and positive attitude, family relationships can definitely be rebuilt.

Fifthly, I am grateful for the teachings of the elderly, inspiring me to re-examine my family. Their life experiences have made me realize that the most valuable aspect of relationships is mutual understanding; The most precious thing for a family is to resist difficulties together.

As we parted ways, the eyes of the three elderly people were filled with anticipation and trust in me. I am deeply moved and determined to repair the relationship between my family, so that the warmth of this long lost home can shine back on our lives.

I sat on a bench by the lake, reminiscing about the past few days of communication with elderly people who live long. As the sun sets and the lake shimmers with gold, my heart is also filled with warmth.

In recent days, the life experiences of my elders have reminded me to cherish the people in front of me, resolve misunderstandings in my family in a timely manner, and rebuild the relationship that was once wounded but will eventually heal.

The firmness in their eyes and the sadness in their tone are all reminders to future generations: emotions are not easy, and one needs to connect with their hearts; Families need to be attentive and understand each other.

Remembering the ever-changing appearance of my parents, a pang of sadness welled up in my heart. No matter what disputes and misunderstandings have occurred, they are the people I care about the most.

There is nothing more precious in this world than family. The past disputes have become memories, and I just want to dedicate this life to the magic of rebuilding a family, and to dedicate this life to the love and care of my parents.

The sunset is gradually setting, and the long sky is about to set. Strolling along the rural path, I am determined to learn from the older generation and rebuild the true essence of family happiness.

In the past few days, I have visited the countryside and listened to the life lessons of the elderly, gaining valuable insights. When I arrived at the residence of the three elderly people again, they welcomed me into their seats like close friends, making me feel the warmth of my long lost home.

Child, we are very happy that you have come to chat with us these days, "said Grandma Chen.

Yes, you remind us old bones of every bit of our youth, "Grandpa Liang said with a smile.

We are all old, and we hope that you young people can avoid the mistakes we have made before and walk a happy and smooth path.

My heart was filled with emotion, and I repeatedly thanked you. As I left, the three elderly people reminded me to treat my family well and pass on this warmth.

I know that what I receive is not only the wisdom of the elderly, but also a concern and expectation. In their eyes, I saw a longing for a better future for my family.

I will keep this vision in mind and turn it into action. On the journey of life, there are too many beauties worth guarding.

Dusk has arrived, and the night in the countryside is gradually falling. I know that with this longing, I will no longer be afraid of the distant world.

With this warm current, I will resolutely continue to work hard to rebuild family harmony.

When I bid farewell to the three elderly people, my heart was filled with endless emotions.

These days of interaction have shown me the most precious aspect of family relationships - the bonds that remain strong after experiencing storms, and the resonance of life through understanding and tolerance.

The path of life is long, and the arrangement of fate is unknown to no one. But I firmly believe that as long as I actively work hard, I will be able to resolve the differences in my family and regain the long-lost family relationship.

Thank you to the elderly for their meticulous guidance these days, which has enabled me to find the link between my family. No matter what the future path may be, I will firmly remember their teachings and unwaveringly safeguard the warmth of this hard-earned home.